Staying Healthy, Happy, and Connected Through the Seasonal Shift

By Devon Sicard, Regional Director of Operations, Waterstone 

Are you one of those people who look forward to fall, with its promises of leaf-peeping, crisper days, and pumpkin-spiced lattes, with hints of the holidays on the horizon? Or, instead, do you dread the colder, darker days that herald the coming winter? 

I want to share my perspective on why this season can be challenging, but also explore how we can embrace it with intention for a better experience, especially in a senior living context.

I recently met up with two of my colleagues to discuss this issue. Erica Labb and Sarah Turcotte host our podcast, the EPOCH Exchange, where they cover various topics around senior living. If you’d rather listen than read, check it out below:

Otherwise, read on!

The Challenge of Fall 

Fall in the public garden, Boston

Fall certainly presents both challenges and opportunities for everyone. 

But, in all seriousness, seasonal changes do affect older adults, even those with a positive mindset who look forward to Thanksgiving turkey and apple picking.  

The problem comes as days grow shorter and temperatures dip. We tend to do less exercise, get less sunshine, and generally take a little less care of our well-being. 

The simple shift of the sun setting a little earlier, particularly around the end of daylight savings time, can throw our whole rhythm off. It’s easy to lose track of the time of day, to feel more tired, or even a little low in spirits. I see it with residents, and honestly, I feel it myself. 

That’s why routine becomes so important. Even though the seasons change, our day doesn’t have to. Waking up at the same time, eating meals on schedule, and keeping our activities consistent can help us feel steady and secure, no matter what’s happening outside.  

The Importance of Light and Vitamin D

One of the biggest shifts we all notice in the fall is the lack of sunlight. Less sunlight means less vitamin D, which is so important for bone health, mood, and immunity. Without it, fatigue and low mood creep in more easily. 

That’s why I always encourage people, even if it’s chilly and uninviting, to bundle up and get outside, even just for five minutes. The fresh air and natural light are powerful. At our Waterstone communities, we’re fortunate to have beautiful outdoor spaces where residents can walk, sit, and soak up the autumn sun (if it’s out!). 

When the weather really isn’t cooperating, we focus on bright, welcoming indoor spaces. It may sound simple, but keeping indoor spaces bright and closing blinds once it gets dark can help keep the day flowing. 

Staying Connected 

Something I feel deeply about is the importance of social connection. The truth is, seasonal change can bring feelings of isolation, especially if you’re staying indoors more. But connection is one of the best antidotes to those feelings, whether it’s sharing a meal, joining a program, or just spending time with a neighbor. 

As I hinted at earlier, some people love fall and all it brings. Others really feel the negative impact of the seasonal transition. The best way to lift the spirits of those who are feeling low is to get together and socialize. If you love fall activities, share your enthusiasm with someone! Encourage them to head out for apple cider donuts and a brisk walk with you.

At Waterstone, we build social opportunities into every day. Our activity calendars are full: from fitness classes and creative workshops to lectures, live entertainment, and excursions outside the community. Residents are engaged, learning, and laughing together, which means it’s so much more than just ‘passing time’. These meaningful activities, structured and spent with others, can be powerful medicine to fend off any seasonal blues.  

Take a look at an example of an activity calendar for Waterstone at Wellesley. Every day, you’ll see opportunities to be social, get moving, or learn something. With these enticing choices, our residents tend to find something that sparks their interest. And, of course, we’re always accommodating to new ideas and resident requests. If someone wants to start a chess club, we’ll help them arrange a space and add it to the calendar.

Movement Matters 

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Don’t let the season be an excuse to stay on the couch. Movement is key. Research shows that physical activity doesn’t just keep us strong; it can even slow the progression of diseases and boost brain health

At Waterstone, we make it easy with a variety of fitness programs. Residents can do yoga, strength training, or balance classes indoors. And when the weather allows, a walk outside, even a short one, can be refreshing and affords us that all-important dose of Vitamin D.  

Staying physically active helps us feel more energized and, just like spending time with friends, will help those prone to melancholy feel a little more resilient against the negative effects of colder, darker weather.  

Finding Comfort in Traditions 

One of the bright spots of fall is its traditions. The season itself reminds us of rituals, particularly in New England. I’m thinking about apple picking, leaf peeping, spooky season, Thanksgiving meals, and cozy gatherings. I find that those rituals help ground us in time. They give us something to look forward to and a way to celebrate the moment we’re in, often together with friends and family.  

Here at Waterstone, we lean into the season. Our chefs create menus that showcase the best fall ingredients: hearty soups, roasted vegetables, and warm desserts. We host themed events, seasonal celebrations, and creative activities that connect residents to the traditions they’ve always loved. 

You can see examples of this across our communities, from a fall wine tasting at Waterstone on High Ridge to a cross-community, autumn-themed Battle of the Chefs. These activities go beyond the usual calendar activities to tie in the sentiments of the season.

We notice in our communities that these touches really matter and make a difference to residents. Consider similarly leaning into the season at home to give yourself a boost.   

Supporting Those at Home 

While my focus is on the residents in our communities, I never forget the families at home who are navigating these same seasonal shifts. You might be caring for elderly seniors at home, you might be a caregiver, or you may be a senior yourself, dealing with the change. 

Whoever you are, changes in routine, like daylight savings or shorter days, can throw you for a loop and make things harder.  

My advice is simple: 

  • Keep the environment well-lit. 
  • Stick to a routine. 
  • Find opportunities for connection and movement. 
  • Lean into traditions to bring comfort and familiarity. 

Those small adjustments can make the season feel less overwhelming and more manageable. 

These things mirror what we create at Waterstone. When I look at what makes our communities special during the fall (and really, all year), it’s how we design everything to support wellness in body, mind, and spirit. 

  • Routine gives us stability. 
  • Light and time outdoors boost mood and health. 
  • Socialization combats isolation and depression. 
  • Movement keeps us strong and energized. 
  • Tradition brings joy and connection. 

It all works together. When residents come here, they’re not just adjusting to a new season of the year. Instead, they’re embracing a lifestyle that makes every season a fun experience.  

Final Thoughts 

There’s no getting away from it: Fall in New England will always bring shorter days and cooler weather. But that doesn’t mean it has to bring decline or low spirits. With intention, this colder season can be full of warmth. 

At Waterstone, that’s what we strive for. We make sure residents don’t just “get through” the season, they thrive in it.  

If you want to find out more about embracing fall as part of the Waterstone lifestyle, contact us to speak to a member of our team or arrange a tour of your local community.  

We all know that keeping the brain healthy takes effort. Sleep well, eat well, move your body, spend time outside, talk to others, and challenge your mind. These are the basics.  

You might be familiar with the “use it or lose it” idea. Think of the brain like a muscle that needs regular exercise and a steady routine of mental workouts to stay strong and resilient.  

Before we introduce a new technology that helps provide these workouts while offering easy-to-digest cognitive insights, let’s pause to revisit some proven brain health basics. 

Brain Health Basics – What Helps and Why  

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Caring for your brain does not require a complete lifestyle overhaul. Often it means making small, consistent choices that are both manageable and enjoyable. Research shows these habits make a real difference, and the best results come when they become part of your routine. 

Movement

Regular physical activity, such as walking, swimming, or even dancing, improves blood flow to the brain and supports memory and learning. Exercise also helps with sleep and mood, which in turn strengthens focus and recall. Harvard Health summarizes these effects and notes the benefits for memory and executive function.  

Sleep

Short sleep and poor sleep quality are linked to higher dementia risk. Studies of older adults show that regularly sleeping fewer than five to six hours roughly doubles the risk of dementia over time. Prioritizing 7–9 hours gives your brain time to process and store memories. 

Food

Eating patterns like the MIND diet emphasize leafy greens, berries, whole grains, beans, nuts, olive oil, and fish to support brain health. Diets rich in these types of ingredients have been linked to slower cognitive decline. Even small positive changes can help. Try adding more vegetables to your meals or replacing butter with olive oil. Cutting down on processed foods is a good idea, too. 

Social Connection

Time with friends, family, or groups can be powerful for the brain. Social interaction strengthens thinking skills, reduces stress, and often lifts mood. The National Institute on Aging points to the benefits of socialization for thinking and memory.  

Mental Challenge

Trying something new, whether it is a puzzle, a recipe, or a class, can help preserve cognitive function. This ‘testing’ of your brain helps it form new neural connections even as we age, and more of these neural connections basically builds up some resiliency against cognitive decline. What matters most is curiosity and the willingness to keep learning. Harvard clinicians highlight the protective role of ongoing cognitive engagement.  

Time Outside

Exposure to natural light helps regulate your body’s internal clock, which supports healthy sleep. A short walk or gardening in the sun provides the combined benefits of fresh air, light, and movement. 

Make Small Changes for Better Brain Health   

A group of happy seniors taking a water aerobics class at a community centre.

We are all probably somewhat aware that all these activities have a positive effect on our brain health.  One of the encouraging truths about brain health is that these small choices create a positive cycle. When you start with one step, you often unlock benefits that make the next step easier.  

Over time, these habits reinforce one another.  

For example, when you make time for daily movement, you often fall asleep more easily at night. Better sleep lowers stress and helps your brain process and store memories. When you’re well rested, you are more likely to make good choices around food, such as preparing a healthy meal instead of reaching for convenience snacks. Nutritious foods, in turn, help stabilize your mood and energy, making it easier to stay active and engaged the next day.  

 You can find these positive cycles running through every smart brain-healthy choice. The important part is starting with one change that feels realistic to you. Each step, no matter how small, is an investment in your brain health that will make the next step easier. 

What’s been missing is an accessible way to check in on how the brain is really functioning. With the heart, we have blood pressure cuffs. With our overall health, we have cholesterol and blood sugar numbers. But the brain has been harder to measure in a simple, everyday way.  

What is our current state of healthcare when it comes to the brain? Maybe you raise an issue with your primary care provider. You get put on a long waitlist to see a specialist. They carry out imperfect, detailed assessments comprised of written exams and ‘follow-my-finger’ tests. Throughout all this, you may succumb to the ‘white coat’ effect, where the stress of being assessed in a clinical setting skews your performance.  

Ultimately, this is an unsatisfactory, inaccessible, cumbersome process. We need a better way.  

That is where REACT Neuro comes in. 

What Is REACT Neuro?     

REACT Neuro is a virtual reality headset that users can put on for a short, engaging session. Activities range from quizzes and reaction games to calming VR environments designed for meditation. While you use it, the headset tracks various activities: eye movements, response times, and hand coordination via the remote, among others. This information is then turned into data that helps reveal how the brain is working in areas like memory, focus, and speed. 

It is like a quick check-up for your mind — a “blood pressure cuff for the brain.” 

We recently sat down with the CEO of REACT Neuro, Dr. Shawn Patel, as part of our EPOCH Exchange podcast series. We discussed this new technology and its implications for brain health. Check it out below:

How REACT Neuro Works   

Sessions take about fifteen minutes. A brain health coach may guide users through the first assessment, though it can also be used independently. Together, participants can set goals, much like working with a personal trainer. After that, the headset is used for regular practice and reassessments, building both insight and resilience. 

 The experience feels a little like the popular brain-training games, but with more precise, science-based feedback. feedback meetings and daily interactions with leadership. There is a real sense that this is a thriving, evolving community in which everybody plays a part, from life enrichment team members to dining staff to the residents themselves. 

What It Can and Cannot Do 

REACT Neuro can: 

  • Provide valuable information about how the brain is functioning. 
  • Track changes over time and strengthen cognitive skills. 
  • Encourage users to build resilience and take a proactive role in their brain health. 

It cannot: 

  • Diagnose dementia or other conditions. 
  • Provide a cure for memory loss. 
  • Replace the role of a physician. 

If results ever point to something concerning, users would be encouraged to follow up with their doctor. 

Why Are We Bringing REACT to Waterstone?

At Waterstone, we are always looking for meaningful ways to support wellness. REACT Neuro fits perfectly into that vision. It gives residents a new tool to keep their minds active and engaged, and it does so in a way that is fun, simple, and modern. Participation is entirely optional, but for those who choose it, this program provides another pathway toward healthy aging. 

What a REACT Neuro Session Looks Like at Waterstone 

  1. Sign up. Residents can choose to participate. A team member helps schedule a convenient time. Participation is optional. 
  1. Welcome and baseline. A team member introduces the VR headset and explains what it measures. We start with a simple baseline check that takes about 10–15 minutes. 
  1. Guided use. A brain health coach can guide the first session. The headset tracks eye movements, response times, and hand coordination while you complete brief, game-like tasks. These are meant to be fun games rather than feeling like mental assessments.  
  1. Results review. You see easy-to-understand readouts for areas like working memory, attention, and processing speed. We save this as your baseline for future comparisons. 
  1. Set goals. You choose focus areas that matter to you, such as reaction time or short-term recall. Together, we pick a simple plan for you to follow. 
  1. Practice sessions. Short sessions fit your routine. You can practice independently or with a coach. The goal is steady, low-stress repetition.  
  1. Track progress. We compare new results to your baseline so you can see changes over time. You can adjust goals if you want to try different exercises. 
  1. Follow-up support. If a result raises concern, we recommend speaking with your physician. REACT Neuro does not diagnose conditions and does not replace medical care.  
  1. Keep it enjoyable. Many residents treat sessions like a quick mental workout. The experience feels familiar if you have tried brain-training games, with the added benefit of objective measurements. 

The Future of Brain Health 

The team behind REACT Neuro believes that one day, checking the brain will be as common as checking your blood pressure.  

The CO-CEO of REACT Neuro, Dr. Shaun Patel, envisions a future where these VR handsets could be a regular fixture in people’s homes, improving and democratizing access to brain health insights. His vision is one of regular testing: he reminds us that this tool enables fun, fast, frequent, accessible insights into our cognitive performance – something we can do in 15 minutes from our couch at home.  

For sure, the technology is opening up new possibilities to bring cognitive insights into daily life. At Waterstone, we are proud to be among the senior living communities leading the way in this exciting new field. 

Brain health is something worth protecting at every stage of life. With REACT Neuro, our residents now have a new way to do just that. Most importantly, it empowers us all to be more proactive in caring for our most vital organ. 

Brain Health as Part of Wellness at Waterstone 

At Waterstone, we believe wellness is about so much more than staying physically active or eating well. It’s about nurturing every dimension of health, including the mind. By introducing REACT Neuro, we are giving residents another way to stay proactive, engaged, and confident about their future. 

This tool is not meant to stand alone, but to complement the vibrant lifestyle that already defines our communities: chef-prepared dining with healthy options, enriching cultural and social programs, opportunities to connect with others, and personalized support when it is needed. 

“At Waterstone, we are always looking for meaningful ways to help our residents thrive,” said Michael Toce, Vice President of Wellness at EPOCH Senior Living. “We’re excited to introduce REACT Neuro as a program for our residents, giving them an innovative and empowering way to support their brain health. This is just the beginning as we look forward to bringing this technology to additional communities in the future.” 

Protecting brain health preserves independence for longer as you age. With innovations like REACT Neuro, Waterstone continues to lead in delivering thoughtful, forward-looking resources that help residents thrive each day. 

Contact us today to learn more about luxury senior living at Waterstone and our commitment to supporting wellness at every stage of life. 

No website, brochure, or online review can match the experience of stepping into a senior living community in person. A tour allows you to see, feel, and imagine what life could truly be like, far beyond what a photo gallery or five-star rating can reveal. 

At Waterstone at Wellesley, Senior Advisor Helena sees the difference visits can make for prospective residents and their families. More importantly, she emphasizes that it’s vital to use visits wisely; ask questions, see what life is like here, and make sure you are confident you can see yourself at home in the community.  

“Every person comes in with questions and hesitation, fears and anxieties,” she says. “Once they meet our team and see how the community lives and breathes, many feel a shift. It helps them imagine a life here.” 

Why Touring in Person Matters 

Helena Dias, Senior Advisor at Waterstone at Wellesley

Helena believes in starting with a conversation. This is such a significant moment in life and a huge commitment, so it shouldn’t be rushed.  

Before a tour begins, she gets to know the individual or couple and their family. In Senior Living, they call this ‘discovery’. They will get to know your lifestyle, what you’re hoping to find, and what worries you about the process. From there, she’ll build a personalized experience around your interests and specific questions.  

That means your tour is always tailored to you. You’re not getting a boilerplate experience. 

A prospective resident who enjoys the arts may spend time in the library or attend a program. Someone who values wellness may sit in on a fitness class or explore the pool. A chef-prepared lunch always helps guests experience Waterstone’s culinary focus firsthand. 

Questions, Concerns, and What to Expect   

Many people hesitate to consider senior living because they feel unsure, overwhelmed, or just don’t know where to start. Common concerns include everything from logistics to lifestyle: 

  • How will I downsize to a smaller living space? 
  • What happens if I need extra care later on? 
  • What’s included in the monthly cost? 
  • I love to cook — what are the kitchen options like? 
  • Can I walk to nearby shops or amenities? 
  • Will I fit in here? Will I lose my independence? 
  • What is the difference between independent and assisted living

Helena hears these questions every day.  She welcomes them. 

“It’s normal to feel uncertain,” she says. “Our job is to listen, talk it through, and help people find answers. Touring gives us a way to have those conversations.” 

Helena takes the time to explain your options clearly, answer questions patiently, and help you navigate both the emotional and practical aspects of the transition. She’s your first point of contact and a guide throughout the process. 

Meeting residents, participating in a class, or simply sharing a meal on-site helps visitors ease anxiety and imagine what life here could really be like. And because Helena customizes each tour based on your specific interests and concerns, no two visits are the same. It’s a thoughtful approach that helps people picture their future with more clarity and confidence. 

And this support isn’t unique to Wellesley. Our Senior Advisors at Waterstone communities in Lexington, Cleveland Circle, High Ridge, and Westchester all share the same mission: to make your experience personal, comfortable, and meaningful from the very first conversation. 

What to Expect from a Senior Advisor    

At Waterstone, the role of a Senior Advisor goes well beyond scheduling tours or explaining costs. Helena sees herself as a partner and guide, especially for people who are new to the world of senior living and may need further expert help. 

She connects families with local trusted professionals who can assist with downsizing, selling a home, planning finances, or navigating care decisions. In this way, she is a conduit, putting you in touch with those who can ease the transition.  

Over the years, she’s also helped families manage emotional hurdles and unexpected challenges. 

“Sometimes I help someone find a real estate attorney or arrange a visit with a geriatric care manager,” she says. “Other times, I’ve helped pack up clothing or walked through a house with someone who needed support. The job often takes on many different roles.” 

This level of service helps people – prospective residents and their loved ones – feel supported and reassured during what can be an emotionally complex time.  

The Waterstone Experience  

Helena doesn’t just work at Waterstone; she takes pride in the lifestyle it provides. During a tour, she highlights features that make Waterstone at Wellesley special, including: 

  • A vibrant programming calendar with lectures, musical performances, and cultural outings. Just recently, she explains, groups have visited Rockport and Falmouth, both day trips in Massachusetts, and she’s a big fan of the regular Friday trips to see the Boston Symphony Orchestra. 
  • A culinary team that focuses on health-forward menus without sacrificing taste. This is high-end dining, featuring top-quality locally sourced ingredients, designed with both heart and brain health in mind. 
  • A variety of wellness opportunities, from yoga and tai chi to pool time and strength training, with classes led by fitness professionals.  
  • A welcoming community culture supported by long-tenured team members who always look for new ways to engage residents.  

“I’ve been here for years, and many of our team members have too. People feel that sense of continuity and care when they walk through the door.” 

Waterstone residents also shape their own experience through monthly feedback meetings and daily interactions with leadership. There is a real sense that this is a thriving, evolving community in which everybody plays a part, from life enrichment team members to dining staff to the residents themselves. 

A Place to Thrive 

Helena knows the idea of stepping into a community can be intimidating for some. She says it can be like “arriving at college and trying to find your place among existing friend groups.” 

In this context, she sees her role as a helping hand, guiding somebody through that transition to a new place and a new start. Since she has in-depth knowledge of all the residents and has gotten to know you as a prospective resident, she can even play the role of matchmaker, introducing like-minded people to help build those relationships. 

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A Natural Matchmaker 

Helena remembers one prospective resident who was especially reserved during his first visit. He was friendly, but quiet and uncertain, clearly trying to take everything in. Then, in passing, he mentioned he enjoyed fly fishing. 

That small detail didn’t go unnoticed. 

Helena immediately thought of a longtime resident who was also an avid fly fisherman. Before the tour was even over, she arranged for the two to sit down and chat. What began as a casual conversation turned into a lively exchange of stories, favorite rivers, and gear recommendations. 

“They hit it off right away,” Helena recalls. “You could see him start to relax.” 

Soon after, the prospective resident decided to move in. By the time he did, he and his new friend had already planned their first fly fishing trip together. 

It’s a small story, but one that reveals the Waterstone ethos. It reflects Helena’s ability to listen carefully and make connections that turn a polite tour into a memorable connection.

When we speak of the Waterstone experience, this is what it’s about: helping people thrive at this stage of their lives. Helena’s role is all about encouraging you to see that possibility, peeling away those fears and anxieties to pave the way for a successful transition into community life at Waterstone.  

Key Takeaways – Helena’s Tips to Make the Most of a Tour    

Helena's tips
  • Come with questions. No concern is too small. Brings what’s on your mind. 
  • Share what you love. Mention your interests, whether it’s painting, fitness, or fly fishing, so we can show you what will interest you here at Waterstone.  
  • Observe the little things. How do team members greet residents? What’s the energy like in shared spaces? Trust your instincts. 
  • Stay for a meal. Dining is an important part of everyday life here. Sitting down for lunch gives you a taste, literally! 
  • Talk to residents. They’ll give you honest insights about their experiences and what helped them feel at home. 
  • Ask about the transition. Moving is a big step. We’re here to help connect you with downsizing experts, care advisors, and more. 
  • Take your time. There’s no pressure to decide on the spot. Come for a second or third visit if you need to.  

Taking the First Step 

For those unsure where to start, Helena encourages a simple phone call to get started. She’ll then help you organize a visit if you’re interested to learn more. She often invites people to attend an event, join a class, or sit down for a casual lunch. 

“There’s no pressure. I just want people to feel what it’s like to be part of the community,” she says. “It can be hard to picture until you’re actually here.” 

Waterstone’s Senior Advisors help visitors navigate the logistics and the emotions behind the decision to move into a senior living community. They offer resources, answer questions, and support individuals through each stage of their journey. 

Schedule a visit to Waterstone at Wellesley to discover the Waterstone difference. 

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Lexington

What Is Caregiver Guilt and How Can You Cope?

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If you are caring for a spouse or aging parent, you may experience a range of emotions along the caregiving journey – ranging from positive to negative. Often, caregivers want to push the negative feelings aside or keep them from bubbling up.

The truth is, according to Donna Schempp, LCSW in an article titled The Emotional Side of Caregiving, if we don’t deal with all our emotions, even the negative feelings, they can begin to nag at you, worsening your health and increasing your stress.

Undeserved caregiver guilt is one of the main sources of negative feelings for caregivers, but they may not understand exactly why they are feeling this way. To help prevent or better cope, caregivers should understand the causes.

What Is Caregiver Guilt?

Those caring for a senior loved one may face feelings of guilt that can be caused from common emotions that many caregivers experience throughout their journey, including:

  • Feeling as though you are not as good of a caregiver as you should be
  • Wondering if you are making the right choices and decisions for your loved one
  • Experiencing feelings of resentment for the time you are spending caring for a loved one and what you may be missing out on
  • Feeling trapped in your role
  • Comparing yourself to other family caregivers or to your own unrealistic expectations
  • Wanting to spend more time to yourself or more time on other members of your family
  • Feeling like you can’t or shouldn’t need to ask for help
  • Knowing a move is inevitable for your loved one, especially if they’ve been adamant about remaining at home or having family care for them

Dealing With Caregiver Guilt

It’s important to understand that oftentimes negative feelings of guilt are caused by common misconceptions about what caregiving should look like. As a result of these beliefs, many caregivers are too hard on themselves and push themselves to take on unrealistic responsibilities. The guilt that comes from not meeting expectations they imposed on themselves can increase feelings of stress and negatively impact health.

If you’re a caregiver who has dealt with these or similar emotions, you are certainly not alone. Find our tips below to discover ways you can tackle caregiver guilt head on.

Identify Your Emotions

It’s normal for caregivers to feel upset, guilty, mad or any other emotion. Putting a name to these emotions can not only help you think about them rationally, but it can allow them to pass sooner.

Instead of avoiding how you’re feeling now, focusing on how you should feel, or anticipating how you could feel in the future, take your emotions day-by-day and moment-by-moment.

Set More Realistic Expectations

Whether you hold yourself to high expectations or tend to compare yourself to other caregivers, it’s important to realize that you should give yourself grace. Everyone has flaws, their own reality, and a number of outside factors contributing to their caregiving journey. For example:

  • Your friend who also served as a caregiver may have had no children to care for
  • A professional caregiver has team members available to help
  • The person you think looks so put-together might only be that way because their loved one is currently being cared for in respite care

You don’t always see the full picture at a glance, so try to set reasonable expectations for yourself. Consider your own emotions and realize you are very likely doing the best you can under your own set of circumstances.

Ask for Help

Remember that there’s nothing wrong with asking for help or support. If you’re not sure where to start, consider asking a friend or family member to:

  • Take your loved one to minor appointments
  • Spend some time with them while you go pick up their prescriptions
  • Pick up groceries or do a curbside pickup for items you ordered
  • Help cook dinner or clean
  • Participate in an activity with both of you

No matter what you ask for, be sure to be specific, as this can help others know exactly what you need.

Take Time for Yourself

Of course, you should also take care of yourself while caregiving.

  • Take the time to visit with your other family and friends
  • Practice self care by exercise, meditating or doing something you love
  • Attend a caregiver support group and learn from senior living team members
  • Go outside and enjoy the beauty of nature

No matter what you do, taking time to care for you can help you be a better, happier caregiver.

Consider If Assisted Living Could Help

There may come a time that you begin to consider or encourage your spouse or parent to try assisted living. This can be a difficult conversation to have with your loved one, but a senior living community might be a great way to ensure they’re living the lifestyle they want, while you enjoy peace of mind.

Leading assisted living communities like Waterstone of Lexington offer:

  • A range of amenities, services and programming
  • Dedicated care from a team of caring professionals
  • Spacious apartments suited to residents’ needs
  • Delicious and nutritious meals prepared for them
  • A carefree lifestyle with freedom from housekeeping and home maintenance

Ready to Learn More?

If caregiving for a loved one is becoming beyond your capacity, we can help. Reach out to our experienced Senior Advisor today to learn more about the benefits of premier assisted living at Waterstone of Lexington.

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High Ridge

What Is Sudden Retirement Syndrome?

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More often than not, people highly anticipate all the benefits that retirement has to offer, especially the extra time and freedom to do as they please once their focus is no longer on their career. For some, this is a time of great joy, but for others, it may lead to unexpected emotions – especially for those who may be retiring earlier than planned due to an unexpected event such as organizational downsizing or a health condition. No matter what the scenario is, the reality of retirement might not meet the expectations that you had during your working years, which can lead to what is known as sudden retirement syndrome.

What is sudden retirement syndrome?

Sudden retirement syndrome is caused by the shock of transitioning to a new normal – a more relaxing lifestyle after remaining busy with work and your professional life. Although we may know a change or retirement is coming, we may not exactly be prepared to stop working or to slow down.

Consider how it feels to be deep in thought, running on a treadmill that simply stops because you hit your maximum workout time. You may know your workout is over, but your body and mind take a bit of time to catch up and slow down. This is precisely how adjusting to retirement or the end of a career feels for some people.

What are the effects of sudden retirement syndrome?

The abrupt changes of retirement can cause older adults to feel sadness, anxiety or even lack of creativity. They may be diagnosed with clinical depression after retiring, experience feelings of emptiness, or deal with other mental health issues. If retirement was an unexpected event, seniors may feel anger, resentment and a loss of purpose and identity.

The good news is that with the right information, mindset and plan, your sense of purpose and life satisfaction don’t have to diminish with retirement. Instead, you can enjoy the retirement you’ve always dreamed of, overcoming sudden retirement syndrome and aging gracefully.

How to overcome sudden retirement syndrome.

Shift Your Mindset

Though retiring may feel bittersweet and overwhelming, a shift in mindset can help you to see retirement in a new light. Try a dose of positivity and think about all the possibilities.

  • You can set your own schedule
  • You’ll have more freedom to visit family members and friends
  • You will be able to pick up passions you may have let fall by the wayside
  • You can give back or continue your pursuit of lifelong learning
  • You’ll have time to spend on yourself again

Stay Active and Focus on Health and Wellness

We all know that exercise can improve your mood as well as your health, so if you find yourself unsure of what to do in retirement, or how you can get rid of sudden retirement syndrome, focus on a little fitness!

  • Go on daily walks
  • Join a fitness class or group for some extra socialization
  • Hire a personal trainer to focus on your specific goals
  • Practice meditation, tai chi or yoga

Pursue Hobbies and Passions

Hobbies can make you happy, fill your heart with joy, and even help you age well. If you’re experiencing sudden retirement syndrome, hobbies and passions are a great way to thwart it.

Explore a New Purpose or Set New Goals

All the extra free time you have in retirement gives you an opportunity to find a new purpose or set new goals. Consider:

  • Finding a fulfilling post-retirement part-time job
  • Spending time volunteering
  • Joining a committee and obtaining a leadership role
  • Visiting with those in elder care or visiting pet shelters

All of these things can help give you a feeling of purpose or help you feel like you’re making a difference.

Participate in Social Activities

Staying social can help you keep sudden retirement syndrome at bay. Not only will you feel more connected and less lonely, but it can help decrease the negative mental health symptoms of isolation and retirement syndrome.

Consider a Move to Senior Living

One of the best ways to beat sudden retirement syndrome is to have something to retire to, or something to look forward to. For many older adults, this is a senior living community.

Why is this? For one, there are plenty of perks of senior living, like freedom from housekeeping, home maintenance, yard work and cooking. Instead of worrying about those daily tasks, you can create your own daily structure, find your new purpose with engaging programs, focus on improving all aspects of wellness, and socialize with other like-minded individuals.

Retire to an engaging new lifestyle at Waterstone on High Ridge.

When retirement arrives, make the most of it as a resident of Waterstone on High Ridge. Contact us today to learn more about our active and connected lifestyle.

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Westchester

Benefits of Retiring In White Plains, New York

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When initially buying a house or renting a property, you do plenty of research on possible locations and the benefits of each area you’re considering. When it comes time to retire, that doesn’t change either.

If you or a loved one are searching for the right place to spend your retirement years, White Plains, located in Westchester County, is a great place to start.

Benefits of Retiring in White Plains, NY

Here are three themes that explain why White Plains, NY, is a great place to retire.

White Plains is a Bustling Community

There is always so much to do and see in White Plains. No matter your interests or passions, there is plenty to explore.

  • Over 50 parks
  • Nature preserves and wildlife sanctuaries
  • Fine arts establishments like ArtsWestchester
  • The flagship Bloomingdales just across the street from Waterstone
  • Community concerts and arts events
  • Festivals, fairs and farmer’s markets
  • A range of delicious restaurants
  • Shows at the White Plains Performing Arts Center
  • Dog parks
  • Nature trails
  • New York City, only an hour away with an express train ride

Check out some of the many other things going on in the City of White Plains 2023 Guide, or if you’re looking for things to do with grandchildren when they visit, we’ve got some ideas for that, too!

It’s Rich with History

Not only is White Plains the Birthplace of the State of New York, it’s also full of museums and historical monuments. Some of the many you can find include:

  • The White Plains Armory
  • The Jacob Purdy House
  • Christopher Columbus Monument
  • Various historical burial grounds
  • The Civil War Memorial
  • Jack Harrington Greenway
  • Percy Grainger Home and Studio
  • Soundview Manor

Dig a little deeper into the history of White Plains and learn more about these sites here!

New Friends Are Around Every Corner

As you likely know, there’s a large population of older adults around the White Plains area who are looking to retire. This means there will be plenty of like-minded older adults near you who may turn out to be some of your closest friends. Even better, our walkable location allows for a range of multigenerational opportunities, volunteering and more.

If you’re looking to expand your friend group or become more social, try:

  • Volunteering
  • Taking classes at a local university
  • Joining a sports league
  • Exploring a new hobby at a workshop
  • Attending community fitness classes
  • Joining a social group within the community
  • Attending lectures and cultural events

Tips for Enjoying Retirement in White Plains

Make the Most of Local Parks
With over 50 parks and nature preserves, schedule regular walks or outings to enjoy fresh air, exercise, and wildlife watching.

Take Advantage of Cultural Opportunities
Check event calendars for concerts, art shows, and lectures. Many are free or low-cost and great for meeting new people.

Stay Connected with Family
Plan outings with visiting children and grandchildren, such as trips to the Performing Arts Center or a day in nearby NYC.

Explore Senior Programs
White Plains offers fitness classes, educational programs, and volunteer opportunities tailored for older adults. These provide both enrichment and new friendships.

Enjoy Local Dining and Shopping
Treat yourself to the range of restaurants and explore shopping destinations like Bloomingdale’s, right across from Waterstone.

You’ll Find an Enriching, Supportive Lifestyle with Waterstone of Westchester

Waterstone of Westchester is ideally located in White Plains, giving you access to everything the area offers and even more. Our current residents enjoy:

  • A walkable location in the heart of Westchester’s shopping district
  • Full calendars of engaging programs and events
  • Social, cultural, educational and wellness opportunities
  • A wellness center with an indoor pool
  • Fresh, locally sourced gourmet dining
  • Opportunities to engage with like-minded neighbors
  • Our outdoor terrace, bar and dining
  • A variety of thoughtfully designed one-bedroom and two-bedroom apartments
  • Supportive care services through VNS Westchester if or when they are needed
  • Close proximity to New York City, just a train ride away

Learn more about Waterstone of Westchester and our location by visiting our website and scheduling a tour.

Enjoy the Perks of Living in White Plains at Waterstone of Westchester

With all the benefits of our greater community and the highest quality of senior living for our residents, Waterstone of Westchester is the perfect place for you or a loved one to enjoy your retirement years.

Call us today at 914.821.6301 to learn more about our independent living offering and to experience our lifestyle for yourself.

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Wellesley

9 Social Clubs for Seniors to Join

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Retirement offers the opportunity to participate in clubs and social organizations, which can enhance your engagement, vitality, and social connections. Are you wondering what some of those clubs are and why you should join them? We’re diving into the benefits of these social clubs and outlining some of the most popular among older adults.

The Benefits of Clubs for Seniors

Before we look into the various clubs, it’s important to note that being socially active and engaged has many advantages. If you’re thinking about joining a club but haven’t yet, you could be missing out on great benefits.

Clubs and social groups:

  • Help seniors stay connected
  • Can broaden older adults’ social networks
  • Inspire active aging
  • Decrease isolation, depression and loneliness
  • Give friends and family peace of mind
  • Provide an opportunity to pursue passions
  • Enhance sense of belonging, purpose and community

1. Book Clubs

Book lovers unite at these special groups tailored to readers. Whether you’re a lover of historical fiction, romance, fantasy or just the latest novels, there’s sure to be a book club that’s perfect for you. In fact, many retirement communities offer book clubs run by residents. If yours doesn’t, it’s the perfect time to start one of your own, or you can join a virtual book club!

2. The Red Hat Society

Chances are, you either know about them or you’ve seen them. After all, is there anything more identifiable than the tell-tale red hats and purple dresses of The Red Hat Society? This group is for those of a membership age of 50 or above. Those under 50 can also join, but don lavender outfits and pink hats.

If you’re wondering what this club does, the heart of it is giving women a chance to define themselves and have fun together. Learn more about Red Hatters here.

3. Card or Board Game Groups

Socialization can definitely be all fun and games when it’s a game group you’re joining! Create your own card, board game or trivia group and play your way to a richer, more active social life. Consider creating or joining one of the groups that Waterstone at Wellesley offers.

  • Bingo
  • Trivial Pursuit
  • Long Word/Short Word
  • Text Twist

4. AmeriCorps Seniors

If you love volunteering and are 55 or older, this is the perfect group for you. AmeriCorps Seniors match older adults with service opportunities via their partner organizations, all so you can help make a difference. Some of their most prevalent programs include the Foster Grandparent Program and the Senior Companion Program.

5. Gardening Clubs

Whether you love getting your hands dirty, tending to plants, viewing them or learning about them, gardening is the perfect way to enjoy it all. Even better, you can learn from friends, discover new gardening techniques and provide your own expertise while getting a little added exercise. Fun fact: gardening is also great for reducing feelings of stress!

6. SilverSneakers

There are plenty of seniors who are looking to live an active retirement lifestyle, and for older adults age 65 plus, their Medicare Advantage or Medicare Supplement Plan may include SilverSneakers. Offering both virtual and community classes, this can be a good way to socialize and get fit.

Senior living communities like Waterstone at Wellesley offer fitness, exercise and wellness opportunities. These include walking groups, fitness classes, aquatic exercise, personal training sessions and more.

7. Craft and Hobby Clubs and Classes

Do you have a passion for a certain hobby? Find a social club that coincides with it. This can include, but is certainly not limited to:

  • Knitting clubs
  • Watercolor classes
  • Short story groups
  • Jewelry-making classes
  • Film groups

Waterstone at Wellesley provides many of these social groups and classes to help residents pursue their passions and interests.

8. American Birding Association

Is bird watching your passion? The American Birding Association group is perfect for you to join. You can connect in-person, on online forums and in groups. If there’s not a group near you, start one with new friends and show your support from afar.

9. Lifelong Learning Groups

There are plenty of ways to continue the pursuit of lifelong learning. Whether you’re taking classes at a local college or university, traveling to various community events or seeking out knowledge in various meetup groups, lifelong learning comes with great benefits.

At Waterstone at Wellesley, some options of groups, clubs and events include:

  • Current conversations
  • Educational lectures
  • Film talks
  • Cultural performances
  • Music groups

Keeping Seniors Socially Connected at Waterstone at Wellesley

Living in a senior community like ours means you can be social and make friends – right in your own home. Contact us today to learn more about our lifestyle.

WATERSTONE AT WELLESLEY. NOW THIS IS HOME.

Waterstone at Wellesley offers independent living and assisted living options in Wellesley, on the bank of the Charles River. Schedule a visit today to experience our lifestyle and learn how we help seniors thrive.

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The Circle

7 Brain Healthy Activities for Seniors

Senior woman enjoys reading in the library

Older adults can improve their brain health, keep their mind sharp and enhance their cognitive function as they age. It’s possible thanks to a range of activities and brain exercises that seniors can enjoy.

What are these cognitive exercises that help to stimulate the brain? We’re sharing a few of the many below so you and your brain can enjoy all the benefits.

1. Games

Could brain health really be all fun and games? Well, they can certainly help make it more fun! Enhance your problem-solving skills, creativity and socialization with card games, board games, word games, brain training games and even video games.

  • Try playing bridge and poker
  • Play Scrabble, Yahtzee, Chess or Mahjong with friends
  • Practice your word search, scramble and crossword puzzle skills
  • Solve a Rubik’s Cubes or a Sudoku puzzle
  • Explore your creativity with Minecraft or become a detective with a mystery video game

2. Music

Music reduces anxiety, blood pressure, pain and sleep problems while improving mood, mental alertness and memory. Not only this, but it keeps your mind engaged through the aging process and helps to stimulate your brain. Music is also instrumental in calming and soothing those with dementia and memory loss, and can even help them recall memories.

Take advantage of these benefits by:

  • Listening to music
  • Attending live performances
  • Practicing or learning to play a musical instrument
  • Performing for your friends and family
  • Volunteering to give music lessons or teach singing lessons
  • Trying to master a set of complicated songs on piano

3. Reading

Reading is good mental exercise and has a range of benefits for your brain. It strengthens your mind, prevents cognitive decline and helps you live longer, according to an article by Healthline.

If you’re not sure what you should be reading, don’t fret. Healthline’s article shares you should read anything you can get your hands on, including:

  • Blogs (Like this one!)
  • Historical fiction
  • Fantasy
  • Nonfiction
  • Anything you’re interested in

4. Jigsaw Puzzles

Were you aware that jigsaw puzzles might help you enhance your visual and spatial abilities? Enjoy some of the benefits, and the fun, by:

  • Purchasing some complex jigsaw puzzles
  • Getting photographs of friends and family made into puzzles
  • Having a jigsaw puzzle party with friends
  • Getting a color-by-number jigsaw puzzle

5. Social Interaction

Believe it or not, being a social butterfly is an extremely brain-healthy activity. Not only does this have a positive impact on mental health, but it contributes to a sense of community.

  • Join a social group
  • Start a club
  • Begin a weekly activity
  • Host small gatherings or get togethers
  • Dine with friends
  • Volunteer
  • Share your skills

6. Trivia

It comes as no surprise that trivia is good for your brain health and is a great mental exercise. Test your memory and enhance your knowledge with trivia by:

7. Arts and Crafts

Arts and crafts don’t just improve relaxation, boost creativity and provide an emotional outlet. They are also a valuable form of brain exercise for seniors.

  • Take up writing
  • Start woodworking
  • Follow your passions for painting
  • Try sculpting or pottery
  • Learn to knit or crochet

Take Advantage of It All at Waterstone at the Circle

Residents who live at Waterstone at the Circle enjoy a variety of opportunities to enhance their brain health and exercise their mind. Every day, they can:

  • Participate in one or many of our clubs and social groups
  • Attend our various social, educational and cultural events
  • Socialize with friends and family over a delicious meal
  • Learn something new with educational lectures
  • Explore our surrounding community
  • Continue their careers or pursue volunteer opportunities
  • Pursue a new passion or hone in on their past skills
  • Share their talents with friends
  • Make use of our many services and amenities

Physical health is also an area of focus in our community, and even better, it can also help enhance brain health.

Experience It for Yourself

At Waterstone at the Circle, our full calendar of activities for mental and physical health is sure to suit your interests. We invite you to experience all that awaits for yourself. Simply call us to schedule a personal visit or talk to a member of our team today.

waterstone of westchester lounge room

If you aspire to be active and engaged in your golden years, you won’t want to choose a senior housing option with a lackluster lifestyle and few amenities. Instead, you’ll want to explore retirement communities that offer ways to remain social and involved, with programs and amenities that you will use and enjoy.

Residents at Waterstone of Westchester, an independent senior living community located in White Plains, NY, know this firsthand. In fact, it’s why many of them choose to move to our community.

What can you expect at Waterstone of Westchester?

At Waterstone of Westchester, we pride ourselves on knowing our lifestyle and senior living amenities are enjoyed by so many of our residents each day. Discover some of the many aspects of our lifestyle you can experience here.

Carefree Living

Life at Waterstone of Westchester is truly worry-free. With a range of services and amenities, it’s easy to spend your time living to the fullest and enjoying anything you please.

Spacious Floor Plans

Luxurious one- and two-bedroom apartment styles await at Waterstone of Westchester. Outfitted with sophisticated flourishes, perfect for individuals and couples, you’re sure to find the perfect place to call home.

Our premier apartments feature amenities like:

  • Designer kitchens with stainless steel appliances
  • Luxurious bathrooms with walk-in showers
  • Walk-in closets
  • A spacious living area
  • Washer and dryer
  • Premium plank flooring
  • Abundant natural light
  • Exceptional finishes

Even better, our community is pet-friendly, so your furry friend will feel right at home, too.

Social Opportunities

At Waterstone of Westchester, you can thrive as a social butterfly and be as social as you’d like to be. Not only is there always someone to chat with just outside your apartment door, but there are also plenty of social events to participate in at any given moment.

  • Chat with friends during art gallery exhibits
  • Go shopping with new best friends
  • Savor social hour cocktails
  • Enjoy meet-the-author events
  • Participate in outings and trips
  • Join a social group, like a book club or drama club

A Full Calendar of Activities

Social events aren’t the only activities that abound at our active senior living community. Our lifestyle is also rich with engaging programs.

  • Play a game of Boggle, Scrabble, or Bridge in the game room
  • Catch one of two daily movies in the theater
  • Make something new in our maker space
  • Take a watercolor class
  • Learn with One Day University
  • Try your hand at jewelry-making
  • Attend a variety of roundtables and presentations
  • Discover if you’ve got a green thumb for gardening

A Fitness Center, Mind-Body Studio, and Heated Indoor Pool

No matter your level of activity, we make sure your health goals are always in reach with our range of wellness amenities.

  • Swim in our indoor heated pool or take an Aqua Fit class
  • Take advantage of one-on-one training in our mind-body studio
  • Try out a standing Barre class or seated low cardio
  • Enjoy an after-workout beverage in our juice bar
  • Join our walking group

Distinctive Meals in Our Restaurant

Dining at Waterstone of Westchester is a delight. Our elevated atmosphere and the expertise of our professional chefs make each meal an experience to be savored.

Our farm-to-table dining experience includes:

  • Seasonal gourmet cuisine
  • Locally sourced ingredients
  • A variety of on-site dining venues
  • Dishes prepared to your liking and based on your needs
  • Anytime dining so you can live according to your schedule

Outdoor Activities on the Terrace

Our fun lifestyle extends beyond our doors, too. Residents enjoy spending time on the terrace, whether they are relaxing, socializing, or enjoying one of our activities.

  • Meet friends around the firepit
  • Enjoy our outdoor bar and dining area
  • Participate in outdoor tai chi or yoga
  • Take in the sunshine with your furry friend

Supportive Services by VNS Westchester

If residents need assistance living independently, VNS Westchester is here to help, bringing residents and their family members peace of mind while enhancing quality of life through:

  • Personalized support care consultations and daily planning
  • Home health coordination with daily living activities
  • Medication management
  • On-site geriatric primary and specialty care
  • Routine wellness visits

EXPLORE OUR LIFESTYLE FOR YOURSELF

For more information on our lifestyle and the amazing amenities that await at Waterstone of Westchester, visit our website.

COME HOME TO WATERSTONE OF WESTCHESTER

Learn more about our premier independent living community. Here, you’ll thrive in a beautifully appointed apartment with designer finishes. You’ll also enjoy connecting with friends in our stunning common areas. Come home to Waterstone of Westchester.

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Summer is the perfect time to get out and explore the many available indoor and outdoor activities for seniors in the Lexington area and beyond. If you’re looking for ideas, we’ve got plenty, so read on for some great activity inspiration.

Summer Activities for Active Older Adults Around Lexington, MA

Lexington

History buffs love being in Lexington. If history is your passion:

  • Visit the Lexington Minuteman Statue
  • Take a walking tour of the Lexington Battle Green
  • Tour one of the many historical homes and taverns
  • Explore local history at the Lexington Historical Society

Belmont

If you’re looking to enjoy the fresh air and the beauty of nature:

Concord

If you find reading or writing to be an enjoyable activity, you’ll love Concord.

  • Host your book club at Walden Pond, where Henry David Thoreau lived and wrote about the changing of the seasons
  • Visit Louisa May Alcott’s Orchard House
  • Tour the Ralph Waldo Emerson Home
  • Check out The Old Manse Home, where Ralph Waldo Emerson and Nathaniel Hawthorne lived

Winchester

Food can trigger positive memories, so why not make some new ones by dining in Winchester?

  • Visit A Tavola for Italian food
  • Enjoy a pub experience at Black Horse Tavern or First House Pub
  • Try something new at Eleni’s Mediterranean Grille

Cambridge

If you’re like many older adults who want to pursue lifelong learning, Cambridge is the place to do it.

  • Visit the Harvard Art Museums
  • Explore the Harvard Museum of Natural History
  • Check out the architecture at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT)
  • Wander through the MIT Museum

Arlington

Seniors can stay attune to the arts in Arlington with:

  • The Cyrus Dallin Art Museum
  • A visit to The Regent Theatre
  • Movies at the Capitol Theatre
  • A production from Arlington Friends of the Drama

Lincoln

Put Codman Community Farms on your list of destinations this summer to enjoy:

  • Engaging programs with the grandkids
  • U-pick flowers to display in your home
  • Gardening in the community garden

Looking for more senior activities to enjoy this summer?

For more information about summer activities in Lexington and the surrounding area or to learn more about our community, visit our website or schedule a visit today.

WATERSTONE OF LEXINGTON: NOW THIS IS HOME

Waterstone of Lexington offers a modern approach to retirement living in a historical setting with concierge services and impressive amenities. Come see how we redefine independent living and assisted living with a visit today.

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